| I think most brides know exactly what u are going through. My sister's boyfriend told me "Men only worry about the engagement part. They worry how to do it, what to say, and if u will say yes. That's enough anxiety. Men do not plan their dream wedding when they are little girls. Women seem to know exactly what u want, men well we just want to sign the cheques". My husband was great about driving me around and picking things up. Everything else in between he was lost. The only time he became excited was about our favors. We made our own wine and we labelled. For whatever reason his fascinated him. For other grooms its all about the music or food. There is something in that to do list that just by nature he must be attracted to. Its sometimes just finding what that something is. |