| Thanks for the advice and support.
I made a call to her last night but she did not answer the phone(but thats normal), Here's the jist of the message I left:
"Hey ____, I am not quite sure what is going on between us or what happened last week, We never fight or even argue. I am making the first call after a week because I want you know know.... I know we both have alot going on in our lives right now and is equally important and we need to deal with those things idividually. I don't think we each have enough emotional power to deal with each other's worries or problems and thats why I think this happened. I am taking resposibility for whatever I said but you need to take care of yourself though. I am not able to give you what you want right now, I cannot deal with anyone elses problems but my own but if you want to talk about what happened last week we can sit down after the wedding and figure things out.
I would really love it if you would still come to the wedding and would love it if you would stand with me that day, but I understand if it is too much for you right now. It would mean a lot to me if you were there though.
I am having a wedding party get together on monday evening and would really like you to be there. You can call me when you get this message or just show up on monday, but If you do not do either I will understand and know you are not coming to the wedding.
If that is the case we will get together when I get back from my trip and figure things out.
Talk to you soon"
Now.....I play the waiting game...I will update on monday if she calls or comes.
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