[platinumcheetah]

Ok...here's the story...

My best friend is one of my MOH's in the wedding, theres only her and my sister standing beside me during the wedding but now I am not sure if she will show...Here's why:

My friend has always had this "I am always right" attitude but it has never affected our relationship(been friends for 8 years now) because we've never got into a fight...not even an arguement. I see the way she treated others but I just did not say anything because I did not want it to affect out relationship.

Well.....here's info adding up to the big blow out...

She promised to help with everything to do with the wedding but she has not helped at all except go dress shopping with me once, I even went out and bought her dress on my own because I could not get a hold of her. Every time I ask her to help with the wedding she promises she will be there and then on the day she cancels.

Finally about 3 weeks ago I am talking to her and she says "ooo...is your wedding on a friday", I said yes and told her she has known this for about 8 months now,.....then she proceeds to tell me her BF probably cannot show because he is working and cant get it off(i know he has not tried).

I told her that her ans her BF has known for months and if he cannot make it I need a confirmation ASAP because then I need to invite some family members(this is a very small wedding with on max 20 guests...i was leaving people out to invite him, who i am not close too at all).

I waited 2 weeks and she did not confirm...and I asked her a couple of times during those weeks.

Last week my house was broken into and I called her in distress because I was really upset....out of all my troubles I asked how her BF's mom was because she was mugged the weekend before...and she snaps at me and tells me
"I dont know how she is"...me and BF are not talking....I asked her whats wrong and she would not tell me.

So i change the subject and start talking about the wedding to get my mind of the break in...and then at the end I explain to her that its now less then 2 weeks to the wedding and I need the confirmation that her BF is coming...and she is probably not...but dont count him out yet. I explained yet again that I cannot leave it any longer and if he cannot confirm then I am just going to invite the family members that I have already hurt by not inviting....(long story).

She gets pissed off and says "I dont want to be a *****, but I dont want to talk about it right now".... by then i was furious and hung up on her.

The next day she messages me and says "we need to talk but not right now, later"...again this is on her time....i got mad and said that we need to talk about her attitude towards me ...but I had alot to deal with about the break in I did not need to deal with it now...

She kept sending me rude messeges about how I need to grow up and I did not even care to ask about why her and BF are not talking....Is she crazy?? I did ask her...

Errr....now its been over a week and she has not called or text messeged me...

I don't know what to do...I know she is just pulling the "i am always right card"...and will not apologize for treating me like crap..

The wedding is in 9 days and I dont know what to do....Should I just count her out? or should I call her?

I have absolutely no time to deal with her bull..

What do I do? please some advice would help!