| hi. i'm chinese. i will be paying for bridesmaid dresses, hair, and make-up as well as the tuxedos for the groomsmen. it will be very expensive! so we are trying to budget accordingly with other items. from what i've seen so far, the bride usually does. the bridesmaids pay for the shower and the stagette so it can be pretty expensive on their side as well. it is my 1st time as a bridesmaid this year!
i think everyone is different and there is no rule. maybe talking with them to see what they think would help. good luck! |